Franz Brinkhaus’ Mentor Spotlight: John Connelly of Dedham Country and Polo Club
By caddying at Dedham Country and Polo Club, Franz Brinkhaus was mentored by John Connelly. He took a moment to share how this has positively impacted his life.
How did you first meet your mentor, and was there anything in particular that helped you two forge a relationship? How did the friendship develop over time?
My relationship with John first started on the golf course. My first 18 holes caddying was for John on a cool New England April morning at Dedham Country and Polo Club. It started with dew on my sneakers and ended with a refreshing orange Gatorade. As a 15 year old I did not realize what I was exposed while caddying for the past 4 hours. I was immersed into seeing someone who had immense composure, compassion, and quiet confidence. Over the years, our relationship has evolved to other arenas of sport such as hockey or paddle tennis. Yet, the same characteristics including professionalism stay true.
What are some of the most important things that you learned from you mentor?
I often try to incorporate John’s professionalism into my every day: his calm demeanor to never let the moment be bigger than you, always be engaged and authentic with those around you, and never forget who you are. John goes the extra mile to understand and to make you feel special. He is engaged with what your interests are and what is special to you.
As a caddy, how were you able to help your mentor on the golf course?
Still trying to figure this one out, I think I was more of a liability than an asset on the course.
As you've continued on your career beyond caddying, how has your mentor been helpful?
John has always leant an ear to me for career or personal advice. The relationship has gone beyond the game of golf. He is and will always be a family friend. He has invested in my career both on and off the course, and I could not be more grateful.
What's your favorite thing about your mentor, something that others should know?
His willingness to give back and to invest in others.
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